Who am I?
I didn’t grow up thinking I’d become the man I am, to be honest I grew up thinking I’d not live past 25.
I was raised in the northeast of England angry, numb & constantly dissociating.
By the time I was a teenager, I was addicted to dissociative drugs and flirting with the edge of my own life.
I attempted suicide more than once.
So I know what it feels like to want out of your own skin.
The British Army gave me structure.
It gave me brotherhood.
But; it didn’t give me peace.
That came years later, in jungle ceremonies, in the teachings of Andean elders, in the quiet terror of facing myself without nowhere to run..
I trained in Peruvian healing traditions, worked deeply with plant medicines, and studied icaros & ancient rituals.
I’ve walked this path for years now, not as an expert, but as a man who’s still becoming.
The Brotherhood wasn’t born from peace.
It was born from loss.
Why I Created The Brotherhood
My best friend took his own life.
I had the training, I had the tools.. but I couldn’t reach him in time.
That broke me & it woke me up with a raging fire to help men.
Men are suffering in silence. They’re numbing, checking out, breaking down and no one is coming to save them.
We have to save each other.
That’s why I built The Brotherhood, to create a modern rite of passage for men who are done hiding, done avoiding, done pretending they’re fine.
What We Do
The Brotherhood is a movement for men.
We hold expeditions that strip away all the bullshit.
Walking into deserts, climbing mountains, running across countries.
We hold free weekly circles where men speak what’s never been spoken.
We weave Ritual, Psychological & Psychotherapy, and brutal honesty into something real.
We have an amazing team of individuals!
No faff, No fakeness.